Comment Re:Nevermind... (Score 1) 53
it was a "fatal attraction" type thing. A friend of my wife became obsessed with me, and after that, my wife was concerned for her safety.
This sounds fascinating. Tell us more!
Gonna sound like one of those AI generated stories on Youtube. 8^) Let's call her Amy. Anyhow, Amy was the wife of my best friend, and after he died at a young age, I helped her with computer stuff. I figured I could still be of help to my dead friend. Amy was impetuous and flighty. Amy had a tendency to ingratiate herself with people, then sabotage the relationship or work environmen after a while. But she didn't sabotage with me - that should have been a clue. So we got along well for some years
Amy started talking with my wife, and they had a lot of phone conversations back and forth. Met for coffee too.
I told my wife that she really needed to be careful, and the best option would be to not get involved with Amy at all, because there would be drama. But my wife can be a bit stubborn, and continued to be friends with Amy.
Then one afternoon as I returned from an errand, I found my wife on the couch, looking like she just saw a ghost.
She had just got off the phone with Amy. Said the conversation started off simply, with Amy saying how lucky my wife was to have me. Wife agreed. But then it started getting strange, eventually about how much Amy loved me, needed me, was going to have me, and eventually Amy threatening my wife with bodily harm. One of those "If I can't have him, you won't either." things.
Amy confirmed all that via email the next day. But she still wanted me to help her with the computer stuff. I just replied with telling her no, and that she needed to stay far away from my wife and I, to pretend there was a restraining order against her, because if she didn't, there would be.
So more emails and texts from her to me were ignored (but saved) She'd drive by our place slowly. So I put up the security system cameras. It's been about 5 years now, She appears to have given up, but I keep the cameras on just in case.